Granted, the title is pretty misleading but I thought it was funny. I meant bi-polar ha ha. I have many of the symptoms. Obviously a lot of the symptoms are the same as depression but I also have ultra high moments where I feel like I’m bouncing off the walls. Surely if it was depression I would be down all the time? Everything I’ve read about bipolar though says that these bouts of extreme happiness and sadness are normally months at a time in length. Mine aren’t. I can be extremely happy one minute then extremely fed up the next. I haven’t seen my psychiatrist in a while mainly because I just haven’t got the motivation to get up and go. A little bit of me is scared as well and I don’t even know why. I think it’s like a social anxiety thing. I don’t know!
Writing all my thoughts down is being both a good thing and a bad thing. On the one hand it’s good to express how I’m feeling and to almost get it off my chest. On the other hand I feel like all I’m doing is writing bad things. Obviously when I feel the way I do though it’s hard to think of happy things to write about. It’s hard to get up in the morning. It’s hard enough to even have the energy to write this bloody blog. God, I hate life!
My girls are the one shining light in my bleak excuse of a life. They are amazing and having them is all that keeps me going a lot of the time. I honestly think if they weren’t here I would have done something stupid by now. They are mine and I love them so much it’s crazy. My middle daughter (I have three) is a wild one. She reminds me a bit of bam bam off the Flinstones. She’s like a cave girl. She’s always getting into trouble, playing up, jumping all over the place. She has a problem with febrile seizures. In her life up to now she’s had 12 seizures with the last one lasting 40 minutes. If they go 60 minutes they have to be put to sleep to try and bring her out of it. It’s so scary. Whenever she gets ill I am crazily on edge just in case she does it again. She is under a consultant at our hospital and he has said that it’s because her body can’t deal with tonsillitis. So we’re having them took out. She has her op on the 1st December, I’m absolutely crapping myself. She scares the heck out of me, crazy child!
My first child is 8 years old now. That seems crazy to say. Time flies! She’s amazing. When she was a toddler she had crazy blonde curly Afro-like hair which looked exactly the same as mine when I was little. Now it’s just long and wavy. She’s doing brilliantly at school, every time we have a parents evening all we ever get are good reviews and it scares me how clever she is.
My baby is just one. She has only just turned one as well and she’s a little nutter. She walks with her hands outstretched to try and balance and she’s saying loads of things now too. The other day she even sat down and stacked up 3 blocks now I don’t know much about children’s development but that’s got to be good!
Well I’ve had fun talking about my kids, I love them all to pieces and if it weren’t for them I wouldn’t be here!